Willing to Accept Help

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A mental health crisis in the family is stressful in itself. It becomes even more stressful when it leads to a family conflict.

You and your loved one may disagree on whether they need help: you may want to take them to a doctor because you believe they are unwell, but they may feel that everything is fine and refuse to seek professional help. More often, families disagree about a specific treatment, such as:

  • the family thinks that a person will benefit from hospitalization, but the person does not want to go to the hospital;

  • a person does not want to take medications that the family wants them to take.

Such conflicts are often caused by misinformation: families do not know about non-coercive treatment methods and believe in the common misconception that someone who is psychotic, delusional, or suicidal will not accept help voluntarily.

Some people seek legal options to force a family member into treatment that they believe is in this person’s best interest. Forced treatment may solve the family’s and/or the person’s problems in the short term, but it often has long-term negative consequences and should be avoided whenever possible. Many parents come to regret their child’s forced treatment.